Have Yourself a Very Sexy Christmas

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The festive season is normally a busy time of year with the hustle and bustle of travelling to see family and friends but it may be quieter this year but there is still the hectic shopping for the perfect gift leaving little time to indulge in sexual intimacy and pleasure. So we’ve got some tips to help you enjoy great sex throughout this Christmas and have some fun too!

Advent calendars aren’t just for the children

Don’t let the children have all the fun opening their advent calendars this year: make one of your own, just for adults!

Include some sexy suggestions to spice up your sex life such as IOU cards to be redeemed during the festive period such as an orgasm a day, back massage, plenty of foreplay. Add hints to spice your sex life more fun, including your favourite websites to buy naughty sex toys and lubes.

If you make a calendar with little pockets you could include your own little Bullet Vibrator, cock ring or small bottle of YES organic lube.

Just make sure you don’t hang this calendar on the kitchen wall!

Kiss under the mistletoe

Not only is it fun to kiss under the mistletoe but you can burn calories too.

Half an hour of puckering up can burn in excess of 30 calories (1 chocolate coin), so why not hide bunches of mistletoe around the house or in the garden and go on a mistletoe hunt, stopping at each bunch you find and enjoy a sexy smooch.

You never know, you might be enjoying a whole bag of chocolate coins later in the day!

Go ice skating

Ice rinks pop up all over the country this time of year so wrap up warm and book a session with a small group of friends and family. Ice skating is a great way to burn off those excess calories consumed over the festive period and gives you an excuse to cling to your loved ones in your bubble when wobbling on your skates.

Even if you can skate just like the professionals, pretend you can’t to enjoy grabbing hold of your partner whenever you like. It will bring a sexy flush to your cheeks and increase the sexual tension between you, even if it is hidden under multiple layers of clothing!

On the First Day of Christmas my true love sent to me…………..!

If your sex life is feeling a bit under the weather at this time of year, pep it up in the bedroom by being adventurous with your partner.

Indulge in some sexy sex toys, lubes and light bondage to make your 12 days of Christmas more fun.

Suggest trying sex toys to increase your sexual pleasure such as a couples’ toy
and get all slippery with some YES organic lubricant or a tube of Sutil Luxe to make sex feel so much better.

You could also try depriving your loved one of their sense of sight when you blindfold them to increase their sense of smell, taste and touch.

With all the delicious food up for grabs this season, try experimenting with sexy food foreplay such as dark chocolate, champagne or steaming hot chocolate with fluffy marshmallows. Who knows where it will end up!

Even if you don’t have time for much sex during this busy time of year, indulge in some sneaky foreplay, a quick smooch or naughty oral sex in the bathroom will keep your juices flowing.

If you do have more time together, take advantage of not having to get up to go to work or do the school run. Have early morning sex to set you up for the day and keep you lusting after your partner.

Something to brighten your December? Why not treat yourself to a sexy advent calendar and indulge in solo play, not only does it feel great, regular orgasms boost your immunity, help you sleep and look younger and make you feel happier, often something we all need during these dark winter days!

Red is a sexy colour

Santa may not seem the sexiest of people for some although Santaphilia is a real thing, some people are turned on by Santa and the traditional costume is a very sexy colour.

A study in 2008 found that people are attracted to those who wear red.

So why not dress up in red clothing or slip into some festive red lingerie, letting them catch a cheeky glimpse of red peeking out from your cleavage to tantalise your partner this year. It is a great time to ditch those knickers, you know the ones I mean and either invest in some sexy lingerine or hint to your partner what you’d like in your stocking this year.

Rock around the Christmas tree

Have a good bop to some festive Christmas songs that everyone joins in with to get your heart racing and skin glowing, enough to attract any partner, or create your own playlist of sentimental Christmas songs to slow dance with your love one and turn the heat up.

Be sure to include the very sexy Eartha Kitt’s ‘Santa Baby’ and the famous ‘White Christmas’.

Let it snow

When the weather is cold or if it snows, wrap up warm in lots of layers and go for a wintry walk together.

Have a snowball fight to warm up and play in the snow. Who doesn’t love “Last Christmas” by Wham?

Snuggle up to your loved one to keep warm or slip your hand inside their pocket to get closer.

Wearing more layers means you have to use your imagination to envision what tempting treats may be beneath.

Wear sexy lingerie or no underwear at all beneath all your layers and tempt your partner with glimpses of what will be on offer later when they undress you in the warm! Eve peeling off your thermals and snuggling under the duvet can feel very sexy!

It’s a Wonderful Life

After your wintry walk, snuggle up on the sofa and watch a Christmas film, such as It’s a Wonderful Life, White Christmas or the fabulous feel good move Elf, always makes me feel festive, in front of a log fire to get you in the festive mood and to enjoy being close to your loved one.

Indulge in creamy hot chocolate sprinkled with marshmallows and dark chocolate, tasting the milky chocolate on your partner’s lips.

Take this opportunity to slip onto the carpet or rug to indulge in some steamy sex in front of the crackling fire and ignite your very own sparks of passion.

Whatever you do this Christmas, make sure you have lots of festive fun and sackfuls of sexual pleasure.